Getting A Hand On Being One Handed

Monday Shaun had to go back to work after having been off last Thursday and Friday, and I was on my own with the kids for the first time since my surgery. Alli came over in the morning with breakfast and pretty much took care of the kids while we talked and hung out. She was a LIFE SAVER that morning and I was so grateful that she was there. My good friend Jenny even came by and dropped off lunch for me and Lillian (she even brought John Whitten some fries), which I appreciated so much. It was yummy comfort food; Hamburger Heaven! After Alli left (she had to pick up Eli from school) is when things got tough. Neither of the kids would nap, and because of that John Whitten insisted on being held ALL afternoon. Lillian was good, she just wanted to go to the park and I couldn't handle it at the time. Of course I can't take any of my pain medicine when I am with the kids by myself because it knocks me out, so I was counting down the hours until Shaun was coming home so I could drug myself. I was in tears by 5:00.

Tuesday wasn't much better. Lillian went to school and I went back home to try and rest but ended up just trying to make a cranky teething toddler happy; it was not relaxing. On my way to pick Lillian up from school I got my cast caught in the steering wheel and tore a stitch out of my hand (had to take both kiddos with me to the doctor to have more stitches put in today). Again, I was in tears almost by 5:00.; Thank the Lord of an amazing husband who came home from work (almost on time) to take of me.

I wasn't expecting to feel much better today but to my surprise I felt great when I woke up this morning. I had to take the kids to the pediatrician, and that went surprisingly well. Then we had to go to my doctor to have my stitches fixed. Afterwards we headed to the park and then back home where EVERYONE napped! A HUGE thank you to Tara Ross who brought us dinner today, it was delicious! I am mastering the one handed diaper change, and dressing John Whitten has gotten a little easier. My sweet Lilly bug has been such a little helper and asks me a few times a day if we can say a prayer to help my arm feel better. I told her today that all of her prayers are working because it is feeling like my hand is on the mend.

Thank you so much to our friends and family who have brought us dinner and called us to check in on us. God has put amazing people in our lives and we are so grateful for everyone of them.

these pics are from trick or treating @ the Hoover library