Thursday, May 5, 2011

Lillian Spends The Night

Last Friday night Lillian spent her VERY first night away! A few weeks ago Lillian asked if she could "sleep at MeMe's house". I wasn't sure that she really understood what that meant so Shaun and I kind of ignored her request. But after a couple more times of her asking the same thing and talking to her about what that really meant, we decided that she was ready (believe me, I know we are crazy). So Friday I took Lillian and we picked out a special pair of pajamas to wear, had a yummy lunch and got MeMe a little spend the night party gift!

We headed over to MeMe and Pop Steve's house around 4:30 and lingered around until 6:00, before I knew it was time for us to go. However, I was convinced that Lillian would ask to come home and that come 9:00 PM I would be tucking my sweet little girl into her bed in her house. That was the only thing that had kept me from freaking out about the whole spending the night away situation, but when the clock stuck 9 and my baby was still happy and asleep at her Grandparents house I had a small panic attack. I cried and spent the whole night staring at my cell phone thinking that any second it would start ringing....which it never did. Lillian had a GREAT time with her MeMe and Pop Steve and I like to think that Shaun and I  (mostly me) grew a little bit as a parent. I went over and picked her up around 8:00-8:30 and we played for a little while longer before heading home. She spent the rest of the day telling me all about her "fun time with MeMe".





Lillian showing us her bed

Shaun and John Whitten were very proud of Lillian 

3 comments:

Kelley said...

Hudson loves staying at JoJo's all by his own. He really gets all the attention, and it makes my heart happy, bc as the older sibling, he was used to that. Not that he will always be the star of the show, but he deserves special attention.

I'm proud of you, Mel!

Jared and Elizabeth said...

Wow!! I can't believe you did it - Congrats! I am nowhere near ready for that and will be calling you crying when Lila spends the first night away. I know Lillian and MeMe had a GREAT time though! (and as usual, Kelley is right. That special attention is priceless!)

Tara & Johhny said...

way to go!! i feel like a bad mom though because i let him go for a whole weekend when he was 20 months. i know your mom loved it and so did lillian!!